Every now and again, as black women in direct sales, we must remind ourselves of just how fabulous we are. It's so easy to only consider our shortcomings, failures or insecurities. We think about how we are not experiencing the kind of success we want in out network marketing businesses or how much time we DON'T spend with our children, our spouses, etc. Well, here's a short confidence building exercise I would like you to do. If you are up for the challenge that is!
At the end of each night for 7 days I want you to write down 5 things that happened throughout the day that proved that you are THE BOMB!!!
Now if this doesn't happen naturally for you, you're going to have to go out and make things happen.
Don't ignore the little things as well.
You can include such things as complimenting someone, calling a friend to just say "Hello", telling a relative you haven't talked to in awhile how much you love and miss them, finally inviting your co-worker to hear more about your business opportunity, the 30 minutes you spent with your kids when you would normally be watching TV-write down 5 things where you have added value to something or someone each day for 7 days.
GO FOR IT!
The 7 Day Challenge Template
Write out each "The Bomb" statement in the following format:
Number 1 was when I....
It meant that....
Afterwards I felt....
After the 7 days are up, look back over the list, you will be truly amazed at how much of THE BOMB you are!
Remind yourself of this exercise every time you feel that you are not good enough, because you are fabulous, you ARE THE BOMB!!!
Every now and again, as black women in direct sales, we must remind ourselves of just how fabulous we are. It's so easy to only consider our shortcomings, failures or insecurities. We think about how we are not experiencing the kind of success we want in out network marketing businesses or how much time we DON'T spend with our children, our spouses, etc. Well, here's a short confidence building exercise I would like you to do. If you are up for the challenge that is!
